I Managed to get hold of a JDM parking pole from ebay last week. I was just rummaging around the interwebz to find out how to fit it (will add a guide here with pics if you want mods!), and just read somewhere that there is a relay for it secreted in the car somewhere.. Didn't bloody say where tho!
Does anyone know where in the car it might be - so I can ask the seller to rob me blind to send me the f**king thing...

Cheers guys!