Friendly Mr honda-hardy member !

Post by **Donald** » Sun Jan 31, 2016 10:36 pm

Back on topic though... I don't know why so many of you are being so one sided in this. Fine he got the item, and he got it cheaper, but it seems his real gripe was the lack of response and where his other post went.

First, HH's a big boy and should at least step into the topic to say something in his defence, whether what he says is true or not matters little (he could of course do this by PM but it seems clear he hasn't), at least a few words would serve to clear this up.

Second, some explanation for the mystery missing post should be offered, surely? A moderator has said no one has received a request to delete the post. I'm not sure moderators have the ability read other people's PMs, and if they can I want off this forum as soon as possible... but that's a different topic. It's possible that someone has deleted it without the others knowing, right? If the poster himself didn't delete it, and the moderating team didn't, then the only thing that can explain it would be some sort of server rollback? Not sure how likely that is though.

Everyone is quick to defend HH and speak in his stead, but it's quite clear that offers no consolation to stefan. He doesn't know him. I'm fairly sure we are all familiar with some of the anti-foreigner sentiments that are present in this country, with particular direction to eastern Europeans. I don't think him being curious about discrimination is that out of the ordinary at all. People are obviously free to sell their goods how they like, but still, where is @honda-hardy?

nitin_s1 · Post by **nitin_s1** » Sun Jan 31, 2016 10:51 pm

Shiny wrote:I thought you smell like cakes, tintin.

I only smell like cakes if I actually come to the meet with them

mercutio · Post by **mercutio** » Sun Jan 31, 2016 10:53 pm

time to sell up i think

this place is getting far to pc for me

Post by **4thgenphil** » Sun Jan 31, 2016 11:04 pm

mercutio wrote:time to sell up i think this place is getting far to pc for me

Try mac, apparently its good! Alternatively perhaps a crime book?

Post by **Gayno** » Sun Jan 31, 2016 11:12 pm

Donald wrote:Second, some explanation for the mystery missing post should be offered, surely? A moderator has said no one has received a request to delete the post. I'm not sure moderators have the ability read other people's PMs, and if they can I want off this forum as soon as possible... but that's a different topic. It's possible that someone has deleted it without the others knowing, right? If the poster himself didn't delete it, and the moderating team didn't, then the only thing that can explain it would be some sort of server rollback? Not sure how likely that is though.

We had no PM to the "global moderators" group (which we all get a copy of) to request removal of a post, which is normally the route someone would go down. That is not to say of course that someone PM'd a single moderator direct to ask for removal. Only the mod in question would know this, IF this had happened.

I can confirm that as moderators, we CANNOT read anyone else's PMs.

Is it possible someone deleted it without anyone knowing? Sure. I could delete any thread or single post if I wanted without reason or explanation. I imagine though that the admin team have an ability to track these changes, so if a mod was to go "rouge" they could see who it was and remove them from the moderator team.

Post by **NafemanNathan** » Sun Jan 31, 2016 11:21 pm

Donald wrote:Back on topic though... I don't know why so many of you are being so one sided in this. Fine he got the item, and he got it cheaper, but it seems his real gripe was the lack of response and where his other post went.

Sure Stefan has a grudge against Sam because he didn't reply to some if his messages, fine hold a grudge. He's also accused Sam of deleting some of his posts (Which we've since established Sam can't do). Stefan has then taken it on board himself to openly call Sam a racist?... I'm sorry, but that's not cool

It is odd that Sam's not replied, but hey, I'm sure he's just sat stewing over the fact that Stefan has the badge Sam now certainly doesn't want him to have

The "S" express · Post by **honda-hardy** » Mon Feb 01, 2016 12:14 am

Wow, this was not expected.
I came on here to find this post. I’m flattered. And I never requested to have any post deleted or remove it myself.

Let me start by saying sorry if you felt victimized in any way. I am not a racist so I expect an apology from you!
I am however a genuine person in our community and strive for Honda perfection and forum bliss.

Let me also mention that I never even listed the badge up for sale. It never crossed my mind at this point to even sell it, I only made a passing comment, should the car be a lemon then I’ll make the money back selling the badge and the Motegi kit.

You @stefan sent me these messages.

Hello. Maybe You want to sell your badge motegi? Thank You.

Followed by.

so... Are You interested to selling this badge? Tell me please, what is the final price, which will be good for You? I'm really interested to buy. Thank You.

You say we discussed a price in your initial post in this thread? Correct me if I’m wrong, but I have read through as many messages and thread I felt are relevant, and I can’t find one mention of price from you

He's told me a price but he's never sold it to me

Believe me, you were not the only person who messaged me. I opened these messages asking to sell the badge to them but I only replied to one person at the time. I didn't reply to all of the others. I was not selling it at the time. Simple!!
Just because I didn't reply to the message you sent means I am a racist?
Well does it?
NO!!!!!!
IT DOESN'T.

All it means, I was simply not responding. SIMPLE

No conversation was had with you and you never even sent another message following my lack of response. in my mind a requirement to sell was not required.

Then I had this lovely polite message from a new member who had obviously signed up to ask me for the badge as she only registered on the day and had no posts. I had no idea of who this lady was, her country of origin, her race, or who her partner is. Just a simple polite request to sell, unlike the many messages I received in the badgering pestering manor.

Hi,
I have just seen your thread on this forum & you have the exact badge I know my boyfriend is searching for & has been for some time, it is his birthday coming up & it would be a wonderful surprise for him if I could give him this as a gift.
I would be happy to offer £70 but would really appreciate a reply ASAP either way as I would need it as close to next Wednesday as possible.
Many Thanks
Kate

YOU THEN GO ON TO MAKE UP ACUSATIONS

She said, she's Scottish and she's looking for Motegi badge for her boyfriend for birthday. His replay in few hours to her and he sold it to her for £10 less what his offer to me. That is nationality discrimination or what ?

Where does it mention in her message that she is Scottish? Knowhere!!!

All she says is to post it to a scotish address…

I followed her message with my reply.

Hi. Thanks for your interest. I will sell the badge for £70. Please bear in mind it is a used item. Have you seen the pictures? If you are happy to proceed, my PayPal address is sam@hardy********.co.uk
Please send your full postage details including full name and I will send it to you next day delivery. Best regards sam

To which she replied,

Thank you for getting back to me so quickly - yes I have seen the picture & realise it is used that is fine. I have sent money to your PayPal account. If you could send to my friends address as I want to keep this a surprise for my boyfriend.

Then I sent,

I will send it tomorrow. Thanks for the money. Hope it makes his day. Regards Sam

I then followed it with..

Hi just letting you know that I have posted the badge special delivery. Guarantee delivery by 1 pm Tuesday
Best regards sam

If you had a problem back in April when I sold the badge why wait till now to publicly try to shame me for being a racist.
You made no further attempt to contact me, instead you just wallowed in your own self-pity.
So you my boy, have made yourself look a fool. Do not ever accuse me of being a racist. I am far from racist.
I never had an opinion of you at all, BUT I DO NOW!!!! so to quote you.

Mr honda-hardy i'm very impressed how intelligent and clever you are.
Thank you very much for all.

I hope is not many people like Mr honda-hardy on this forum.

i am intelligent, i have bit my tongue until now, i have spent hours tonight collecting information on this subject and all i can find is your lack of factual information, just lies that you have created,
i also say im glad there are people like me on this forum.

to quote you further.

I don't know him, and i don't know how he is. I never done nothing bad to him and i can not understand why he doing this to me

i have done nothing to you. its in your head bruv!

I might add to all the other members on here that I thank you all for sticking up for me and allowing me to continue with the harassment of nitin and his tight underwear.

and yes @nitin_s1 you do smell of curry now I have sold my type s, and that’s not a racist thing,,,, it’s a curry thing. .

nitin_s1 · Post by **nitin_s1** » Mon Feb 01, 2016 12:30 am

curry thing.

brilliant love it

89 UKDM BA4 4WS (resto job!) · Post by **wurlycorner** » Mon Feb 01, 2016 12:42 am

Right that's that cleared up then. Now we can all move on and Stefan, trust that has set your mind at rest.
Sorry that you felt aggrieved in the first place, but please avoid dragging a private annoyance about something as simple as someone not replying about selling a part that they had never advertised in the first place, into public again - blowing that up in an accusation of racism doesn't do anyone any favours.

And Donald, there is one members pm's that mods can read on here...

and that's yours...

The "S" express · Post by **honda-hardy** » Mon Feb 01, 2016 12:45 am

the more i read through his slanderous post the more sadness i feel for him. because to manifest public accusation of racism in this manor means his medication isn't strong enough.

now my dear friends and mods, please do not remove this thread or even lock it, i want to see his response. i actually want this kept up. i dont care that the single-minded actions of one member can try to over shadow our community. facts prevail.